There are a lot of sources out there that tell you the things that cause premature ejaculations but there are a lot of places that give misinformation. Because men dont like to talk about premature ejaculation and most men dont even discuss it with their doctors or health care providers there are myths that get passed on from generation to generation as fact about premature ejaculation that just arent true.

You have probably heard some of these from your brothers or your father or your friends. While these myths have a basis in fact they are not causes of premature ejaculation the way that people say they are so if you have been experiencing premature ejaculation chances are that these reasons are not the cause.

One of the biggest myths about premature ejaculation is that premature ejaculation can be caused by a sexual experience from the past. Lot of guys think that they develop premature ejaculation because one of more of their early sexual experiences was rushed, or took place in a car, or outside, in a bedroom where they were hoping they wouldnt get caught so they rushed through the sexual act in order to avoid getting caught and have premature ejaculations because their earlier sexual experiences were rushed.

That is just not true. What is true is that premature ejaculation can be caused by stress or anxiety. But just because you had some rushed sexual experiences in your past doesnt mean that you will always have premature ejaculations because of it. If you are worried about getting caught you might to finish the sexual act quickly but that will not have any bearing on your ability to ejaculate normally.

Another common reason that men assume is a cause of premature ejaculation is worrying about relationship issues or having a bad relationship with your partner. Once again, stress can cause premature ejaculations but just having a fight with your partner or having some unresolved issues from past relationships is not going to cause long term premature ejaculation in men.

Worrying about maintaining your erection is also something that is generally considered to be a cause of premature ejaculation but it really isnt. Stress, anxiety and yes worrying can cause short term premature ejaculations but you have to be under significant amounts of stress in order for stress or worry to cause a premature ejaculation. If you are having sex for the first time with a new partner you may be so anxious about maintaining your erection and pleasing your partner that you have a premature ejaculation but that will not impact your ability to perform normally in the future.

You probably have noticed a common theme running through the most common causes for premature ejaculation that are not actually causes of premature ejaculation. In each case worry or stress is the primary reason for the premature ejaculation. Stress and worry and performance anxiety can cause premature ejaculations but only in the short term, usually just once or twice.

If you are having long term premature ejaculations then stress or worry is probably not the cause of your premature ejaculations. You may need to see a medical professional to rule out a serious underlying medical condition as the cause of your premature ejaculation.